The OW is married and as far as I know has not made any plan to leave her H. I think she has now decided she can't continue this A anymore.
I don't think I'd call it quit on my H now since it's my wish for us to reconcile. I've stopped pursuing him and have appeared to agree with our impending separation. I've initiated very little conversation with him in the last 3 weeks. I'd probably continue as is, allowing him to finish with his mourning and hope he'll wake up to himself after that.
M 39 H 41 T9 M6 EA found Dec 09 Separated Apr to Jun 10 Currently in house separation
