H was restless all night, tossing and turning. Early this morning, I overheard H and OW talking on the phone this morning. H was crying and asking why OW has stopped contact with him. I couldn't believe it! Is there now a chance for our M? WHat should I do while H is mourning the end of the A? Should i show him more love and concern? or continue to GAL?
I haven't been following your situation from the beginning but just reading this part made me want to chime in for a bit.
Observe the dynamic that's currently in progress.
The "OW" has stopped contacting him. She was interested in him at one point, she was pursuing him but now..... not anymore. What happened to him as a result? He contacts her asking why? He's feeling rejected, as a result he is pursuing her.
That is good information, gives you insight into your own situation.
He wants what he can't have. He can have you anytime, he probably knows that. What happens when you call it quits on him? I bet you I can figure out that answer, the question is are you willing to implement the solution that produces these results?
