I've been reading a lot of the resources OP sent me at the beginning - and I came across this from J3B -

To me a True Walk Away Spouse is: See you done, divorce ASAP no regreets and no remorse. The only thing that changes in their life is that they do not want you in it.

MLC what they want changes day to day, they want you they don't...it really is up to you to read the resources...if most of them fit...sorry to say MLC.


I am wondering if my H is more of a WAS - it's been about 3 months since he said he was "done" - and he hasn't changed his tune at all. But I know he has a ton of other issues that are similar to the MLC. And of course I know I am still thinking about him when I should be thinking about me -I am just trying to make sense of my world and he is still in that world.

I am spending a lot of time alone at home - and it's not so bad - but I just feel so lonely and empty - and I end up hearing H's words in my head and begin to question whether or not they are true.

Saturday night pity party:)


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
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