Today while driving in the car, he went off on a rant about how much he hates his job and that he will probably quit next week. He says he just can't stand it there any longer and will take a flunky job for awhile and work on his degree and then get back into the big buck market in about a year. I asked him if there was anything I could do to help and he said.."like I've been telling you all along, get a job" I told him I was trying and he said he knew that. I asked him if he wanted to stay here another winter, and he said no. I asked about health insc. and he said he would just have to be healthy. There was no mention of selling the house, no mention of my health insc., no mention of how we were going to make the house payment. It sounded like to me that he was going to quit and move in with her. She has a house, a good job and he has already told me she would take care of him until he was done with his degree.
So that leaves me, here alone, with no job and a house with bills. I'm guessing he is going to ask for a D so he can get his 1/2 of the equity while he works on his degree, thinks he won't have to pay alimony if he isn't working and lives with her. Who knows how long it will take to sell the house. That sort of shoots my idea of taking classes myself to get back into the job market.
I just don't know which way to turn anymore. I haven't said anything about her or our R since that night we had the wine. I have kept to myself and been pleasant. Maybe the damage is already done and he is too.
