Ok. Sounds good. I truly believe you can reconcile for good with your wife and have a great marriage. It sounds like she wants to give it a chance. I will tell you one thing that I know. It shouldn't feel like work for a man to love his wife the way she needs to be loved. You will have much better chance at success if you do it out of the joy of being a mature, confident, emotionally strong, steady, thoughtful man. She will follow right along if you can learn how to lead in the right way.

Please fill us in on the last few days. That gap is too important for us to give you wise counsel without knowing more of what actually transpired. It is sounding like something happened to open up and tell you what she told you today.

Again congratulations. Enjoy it and live in the moment. Be happy in the moment. Stay happy.


And by the way.. Stay humble. That is GOOD that you recognize that.

Last edited by gucci loafer; 07/10/10 11:30 PM.