Hooray!! You and your wife could get a lot out of the Retrouvaille program because they teach you how to talk to each other and how to treat each other with respect. It is a weekend program to begin with, and then there are weekly follow-up sessions to help you slowly rebuild the marriage. Check the website, www.helpourmarriage.org for locations and dates. The cost is quite low because it is sponsored by the Catholic Church, but the program is not religious teachings. They teach communication skills.

My husband and I went 3 years ago, and our marriage has been great ever since. We volunteer for Retrouvaille now. In fact, I will spent most of tomorrow making up packets of information for the couples at our summer weekend, next weekend. We can only help 30 couples 4 times a year. But we do help.