Talked to H again regarding some mail that he left here. He brought up me moving back home and said that he feels like he has whiplash because he had been working on getting used to the idea of me being gone and what to do with the house, finances, etc. and now he is thrown off and wants to make sure I'm coming back for me and not for him. I explained that while I was glad I came up here because it gave me time to think, I realized that my life is in Cincinnati, and that I do not expect anything from him upon my return. That is pretty much where we left it.
I want to explain more to him, but I think the DB thing to do would be to just let him go and process this latest development, right? Its hard to just let this go. And, to be honest, I am a little hurt that he could start moving forward so quickly after I left.
