I feel for you, Cathy, but I am so glad you are being honest with yourself as well as with the R. I really think my H went through this too... only he did not put me through the heartache of moving back. The good things are that he obviously still sees your home as a safe place that he can come to, so this is there in his subconscious. So, if he can leave and grow a bit more, he will return again for good. Take care of yourself. Good luck hunting!


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.