1) Correct. Her stated reason to come over is to TALK...so you will LISTEN. If she asks you any questions: "I'm processing a lot of information and options right now. I'm going to take more time to think about that before I answer."
2)MC to W: "Like you, I have many decisions to make about my M and I'm going to take more time to think about these choices before I answer."
3)MC to W: "I've got plans in about an hour, probably need to take a shower and change in the next 1/2. If you want to TALK, I'm all ears, truly, but I do have somewhere to be. So what's on your mind?"
4) Prayer...done. Think twice, speak once (if at all!)
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