After reading these forums last night I pretty much know Gucci is dead on. I feel like an ass after reading what he wrote, but it's motivated me to do better.
I do have a particular problem today though that I need some advice on. She is suppose to come over today just to TALK. I asked her yesterday, if this visit was her way of coming over and getting the rest of her stuff and she said no. Just talk.
Now after reading all this wonderful information I have questions..
1) I'm feeling that I in NO way should initiate the conversation that she wants to talk about. Am I correct?
2) If she starts talking about divorce and asks me how we want to do everything...WTH do I say and NOT say. (Boundaries?)
3) If she wants to just hang out and not bring anything up, do I let her...or do I just get her out as fast as possible?
4) Can you guys say a damn prayer for me so I don't open my damn mouth about the Big R?
