Wife isn't sure about marriage...

[Quicksilver264]

I don't know that anyone in the circle of friends is mature enough... I'm also afraid that by outing it to all our mutual friends, that she would never forgive me. It could hurt the reconciling process, if there were to ever be one.

Again, you are STRUGGLING in the quicksand. FORGET WHAT YOU THINK YOU KNOW. FORGET YOUR FEELINGS.

Please READ my thread. Especially the LAST 3 pages.

We are TELLING you what is the RIGHT course. You are so EARLY in the process that a good exposure could be like a thermonuclear bomb on the affair.

RELAX and stop fighting the quicksand.