Well said QS... SG you can play softball here if you want, but you will very lilkey allow the affair to FLOURISH and eventually your wife will be mounting him in some cheap hotel someplace.
Act or not its your choice. but you've been warned.
QS can help you get more INTEL so you can confront her fully. I know you think you know enough, but the more you can reveal and expose the less exciting the affair is... You really want to pour urine on this thing as quickly as posible... It's an inferno getting ready to blaze if its not there already...
It sounds like MIL is on your side here so you should start meeting with her regularly and have her lean on your wife as much as she can...
I can't stress enough the importance of having your circle of friends and family involved to pressure your wife to back off of OM and get her marriage under control.
All of the stuff she told you is classic... I can tell you how the next eight weeks of your life are gonna turn out minute for minute if you want...
Or you can get up and change it to something better.. your call
