LISTEN TO WHAT ALLEN SAYS. LISTEN TO WHAT ALLEN SAYS. LISTEN TO WHAT ALLEN SAYS.
READ the forums here. GAIN knowledge. LISTEN to the advice.
I am FAR from one to talk, but when I HAVE done what was suggested to me, IT WORKS.
This is a PROCESS. It CANNOT be fixed as fast as you want it.
I have to sit by and watch my wife absolutely pine over another man. You'd be HORRIFIED at some of the online searches she did today, all in attempts to figure out how to win him over and be a better little sl*t for him.
EVERYTHING your FEELINGS tell you do to is WRONG WRONG WRONG.
Think of being trapped in quicksand. Your FIRST REACTION is to struggle like Hell to get out. BUT UNLESS YOU KEEP CALM AND DO WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD AND TRAINED TO DO, YOU WILL DIE.
So welcome to the quicksand pit. You can either:
1) struggle in vain
2) LISTEN to the teaching and suppress your fears.
And look at the last posts my my thread about RE-EXPOSING the other man. I FORGOT my training and struggled for TWO DAYS in the quicksand. Then I FINALLY sucked it up and applied what I had been told.
I RAINED DOWN HELL ON THAT B*STARD. That's what you have to do.
This other guy has called down the Thunder. Now YOU have to make it rain. And I am talking a typhoon that destroys continents. Expose him as MUCH as you can, in a way that is told and taught here on the forum.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 07/10/1008:45 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed