Oh man!! I'm sorry- I was wondering why you didn't post for a day or so.
If you were in the US you could sue her, the city and the county!
Hope you're not hurting too much.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again