I don't know that anyone in the circle of friends is mature enough... I'm also afraid that by outing it to all our mutual friends, that she would never forgive me. It could hurt the reconciling process, if there were to ever be one.

She tells me she hasn't talked to her mother in two weeks. When she first told her about our problems, she said that we hadn't been together long enough for her to leave and that she felt we needed to work on things before making this type of decision. That's not what my wife wanted to hear, so she hasn't talked to her since.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done