Wife isn't sure about marriage...

[someguy1233]

I know for a fact that they've gone out a few times over the past week, at least in group settings. And they still communicate daily.

I don't know that I understand the need to dig for further intel. At a minimum, she's having an emotional affair which in my opinion is bad enough. I firmly believe I know what's going on I just don't know if there's any hope of saving our marriage.

I'm thinking about telling her tomorrow,
"I just want to be clear on one thing. I don't want to argue the details. I know about your actions with O/M and that hurts me. The only reason I'm telling you this is because I want our marriage to work." and then I'd leave... I wouldn't leave it open for discussion.

But given our past, I believe she will make a decision after this week. And at this point, it appears I'm in the losing corner.