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Are you telling me that my marriage is over?


No, I am telling you that chasing him while he is running away from you is like saying "I don't care what you feel" and invalidating what he is saying to you, and he will probably just become more determined to end the M.

I have no idea if your M is over. It might be. It might not be.

Pursuing him isn't going to save your M however, so take the focus off of him and set about making YOU happy on your own.

If you are going to talk to him, then either agree with him or say that you don't think you can stay in a M with somebody who doesn't want you either and you have some thinking to do, I guess.

And then don't discuss anymore R stuff.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 07/10/10 07:50 PM.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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