Training for a Marathon, Hoping for a Sprint

[lookin4support]

I can tell a brush-off when I see one.

I'm not here to debate, L4S. I'm a very busy guy, whose own marriage has been saved using the techniques I've learned about and espouse here. I choose to still spend time here to help others, so that they can benefit from not making some of the same mistakes I did, and so that they can learn from the things that I did that WORKED.

Greek and I have both saved our marraiges, and have both just recommended a COMPLETELY different approach from what you're taking. And all you can respond with is "I need to hear from those who disagree with my chosen approach"?

Let me ask you this: HOW did you choose your chosen approach? How much have you studied infidelity?

I'd recommend that you read not only MWD, but Harley, Glass, Tupy, Spring, Dobson and McGraw. These are the EXPERTS in the field of infidelity, with collectively well over 100 years of experience in the field. Very, VERY few recommend the approach you're taking, and -- again -- I've personally never seen it work.

I do wish you good luck, tho.

Puppy

I am sorry I offended you, Pup. I was sincere when I told you I appreciated your comments and I am taking them to heart. Seventeen days ago, I thought I had a great marriage and today I live by myself with my dogs. Clearly I am clueless when it comes to what is going on in my life. In the past 17 days I have had a lot of changes in how I view things and my approach on how to resolve this issue is a work in progress. I really do need to hear from people like you who have been successful in your own marriages and in helping others salvage theirs.