Thanks to both of you for your responses. I need to hear from those who disagree with my chosen approach so I can see the potential pitfalls. Please don't hesitate to make your point. I understand that we all have the same goal here and will not be offended by anything you have to offer.
I can tell a brush-off when I see one.
I'm not here to debate, L4S. I'm a very busy guy, whose own marriage has been saved using the techniques I've learned about and espouse here. I choose to still spend time here to help others, so that they can benefit from not making some of the same mistakes I did, and so that they can learn from the things that I did that WORKED.
Greek and I have both saved our marraiges, and have both just recommended a COMPLETELY different approach from what you're taking. And all you can respond with is "I need to hear from those who disagree with my chosen approach"?
Let me ask you this: HOW did you choose your chosen approach? How much have you studied infidelity?
I'd recommend that you read not only MWD, but Harley, Glass, Tupy, Spring, Dobson and McGraw. These are the EXPERTS in the field of infidelity, with collectively well over 100 years of experience in the field. Very, VERY few recommend the approach you're taking, and -- again -- I've personally never seen it work.
