I just spent a good hour on her site reading and saving some reading material.
Honestly, I find the logic and straighforward approach from her refreshing and action oriented.
My concern is it appears overkill in some places. I certainly have reservations about full-on exposure to everyone. That seems a little over the top escpecially since she is not flaunting it yet.
On the other hand, I cannot see any evidence that the A is waning. In fact, it's getting bolder and more intense. So PDT had suggested a little "Hope it's worth it....things will be very different when you return" Infidelus Interuptus text as they head out of town Wednesday.
I'm sure a confrontation will ensue when she returns. And I'm preparing for that.
The level of exposure may only extend as far as her mom; OM email; and perhaps their place of co-work.
Predicting a meltdown and she will be asked to go live with him, then. I go completely dark. Let the Attraction element in her go into overdrive and the tension in the A skyrocket.
I will get a mediator on board and prepare the Protection element of a Sep Agreement (all other details to follow as required) e.g. Interim Banking arrangements/obligations and shared joint custody.
I would love to hear anything else you recommend for me.
