Thanks to both of you for your responses. I need to hear from those who disagree with my chosen approach so I can see the potential pitfalls. Please don't hesitate to make your point. I understand that we all have the same goal here and will not be offended by anything you have to offer.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10