I met her that day and asked her to come home unconditionally.
As a Christian, I'd like you to consider two things, L4S:
1. Yes, Jesus said to "turn the other cheek," but He also knew when it was right to throw over the moneychangers' tables.
2. Yes, Jesus forgave the harlot, but He also told her to "Go and sin no more." That was a CONDITION; His call to her for holiness and repentance.
We can LOVE our spouses unconditionally (and we are called to), but that doesn't mean we are to allow them to behave without boundaries in their conduct towards us and our children. There are all sorts of behaviors that we (correctly) wouldn't abide in our homes, marriages and families.