I am waiting for the moral and spiritual beliefs she has followed her whole life to lead her back to our marriage. That is going to come when her heart softens and she realizes that the infatuation the OM feels is not comparable to the depth of love that our relationship holds. She has chosen the path she is on right now, but some of her comments and actions to this point already show that she questions whether it is the right choice.
The death of our son has caused her to question the very basis of her belief system. As a result, she has made some choices she wouldn't have made prior to that. It is hard to explain, but I was where she is now with her faith and you rationalize why you should be able to do what you want. In the end, I think she will come to her senses.
Last edited by lookin4support; 07/10/1006:00 PM.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10
