I understand the position you are taking and for some people that might be the right answer. In my case, that response does not align with the way that I believe God wants me to handle this. Two very different approaches, but I think each has some validity based upon the individuals and the circumstances leading up to the problem.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10