My H just called and I lost it....I asked him if he would think about trying. He got quiet and asked why he always pulls away and he said that it is not where he thinks we are headed and that is why he pulls away.

I am so hurt. We went from arguing to his leaving and eventually deployment with nothing in between. He says he prefers to talk about this tomorrow because he was tired and it is already after 10 pm where he is.

All I can do is cry. it is over, at least that what he believes...Nothing I can do...

What do I do?

Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison