In the 4 phases of SSM recovery everybody get stuck here: Phase 3: Get Your Spouse on Board... I (we)jumped in this phase after month 23th, I'm still there.
Me:52 W:50 M:30 D:19S:27 Discovered EA:08/08 denied W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08 Exposed wrong OMW:10/08 Found exact OM's ID 2/09 Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet 25 months after still a rollercoaster