SA- Thank you. You ask about H's family....it's his sister he went to visit with OW. I considered her & her H my family...known them for 37 years...spent lots of time together....took vacations together...took care of her kids when they were small
All I got was one phone call from my SIL, right after the bomb...when I couldn't do much talking...just cried. Said that she will call me again...but never did. I already mentioned SIL is a therapist...and H was getting therapy from her. H told me that she didn't give him advice or told him what to do....just listened to him.
I was kind of shocked when I found out that H is taking OW there...it seemed like another betrayal...by his sister as well....She is his blood, his only sibling and will support him no matter what...she may not agree with it, but she will not take a stand.
As a therapist, SIL should see right through them...see how nutty they both are....
Otherwise all is quiet here...D told me that dad has been trying to Facebook her and text her...but that she is not replying....I asked why and she said that he always picks weird time to text...and then she forgets to reply....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
