I'm back and looking for insight

[kat727]

Yes my ex is still with his affair partner...4 years since the EA started. They live together and are engaged. He doesn't work on himself or fix things, so I can see history continuing to repeat itself in his case. They are still very much in their fantasy world. Neither of them can understand why their kids don't want anything to do with their wedding. Neither of them feels that they did anything wrong by having an affair and destroying two families in the process.

For me, I know we are going to end up in a much better place. I am finding myself again and it feels good. The kids have moments like we all do but overall are thriving. I don't miss my ex but when things go wrong, I do miss having someone to help ease the tension a bit until I figure out the solution. lol

I hope you have a lovely day.

kat