Andy....if I read that 4 years ago it wouldn't have made any sense. Today it does. Thank you! Actually I thought I had forgiven him.....but maybe not. My ex is still not happy even though he is in another relationship (and has been since we separated). Secretly that makes me feel better about myself....problems in our relationship were not all my fault! Still working on the part of believing in myself. I will copy what you posted and give it a try!!! Thanks for keeping in touch.
