Just keep trying to push forward I suppose Bond. She knows Im in school for a new job, have a new house that I can afford on my own ( less pressure for her to be working ), etc. We had a pretty decent talk yesterday morning when I was dropping off the kids on my way to class, actually talked for a good bit of time.
Funny as hell that she actually said some of the same things you guys and the DB/DR books do. Basically she said to be " real" instead of "phony". Dropped a couple of vague, non specific hints that we could possibly reconcile, but it will take quite some time and her BS detector is set on super sensitive.
Would go into more depth, but gotta run. Need to meet a contractor at the new house shortly, DD wants to help paint her room and I have to get her to her mom by 12 noon and I have a TON of work to get done and moved in by next Thursday !!