While I was out, she sent me an email saying

"I don't want to fight with you. It's been a long and stressful week. I'm learning and discovering new things everyday and I'm terrified that you won't really hear me. I think we see things very differently. "

Yep!

I don't want to stay in a marriage where someone is willing to "suck it up" and be miserable just to stay with her kids. I think she's cake eating, and scared to put on her BGP...