In the time I have been here, there are certain names I look for in return posts because they will always have wise, uplifting advice. You are one of those people. No one has the perfect answers, but can only point in what has been the sensible direction. You are as good a compass as anything Jack Sparrow ever had ( pardon the movie plug)
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011