It is true that in the future sometime, like NM sort of said, you'll have to see him to exchange bub. But you can still be "above" it then- so much time will have passed, it will be an entirely different scenario.

Originally Posted By: Piano
I feel if I saw him often, it would perhaps help me with closure

Closure.. i want closure.. i want to know what happened, darn it!


I think we have to create our own closure. And I think WH being gone will help you do that a lot!

I just wanted to say... I don't think you should ask WH anything. Like why he didn't ask about her. Whatever his response is, it won't be good enough. Busy, thought she was fine, or whatever. Hearing his response would just make me more mad because he doesn't have a good reason!

I'm glad you and bub had quality time!