My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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About a week ago I told W about S praying for our family to stay together, and she thanked me for telling her that. This was at dinner, and we did not talk too much. I told her "your welcome", and that S did not want me to tell her. I told her S was probably not too happy with me because I told her. She said she was "sorry." I should have asked her why she is thanking me. A lost opportunity. I just don't want to talk with her really.

She also said that the Parents and Childern Together meeting that is for parents going to court appointed mediation was very useful. I should have asked her why she thought that, but I was avoiding talking to her that night. Another lost opportunity. I just would rather not talk to her. I did thank her for buying dinner. She did ask me to go.

How should I handle things in the future? I don't know what her expectations are. I guess I should engage her in some sort of conversation. Should I ask her "why" she thanked me for telling about son praying or the PACT meeting.

I would appreciate everyone's thoughts on this and what I should do in situations like this again. Could I ask her any questions that I did not last night?

Allen - Could you please give me your thoughts too. I have not heard from you in awhile. I see some chances if I do it right for the marriage. Slim, but some hope. I need a little hope again.

Thanks in advance everyone!