Help!!!! I really just want this affair to be OVER!!! I don't care how it happens. I just don't want to share my husband anymore. He can take all the time he needs to get thru the MCL. I can't stand the sneaking around, the lying, his playing me for a fool, talking about it, worrying about it, thinking about it.

I AM SO SICK OF THIS AFFAIR BULLSH&&!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want it to go away and never talk about it again..ever.

I am ready to call her parents, her adult kids, her ex husband, her work and her friends and tell them all just what she's doing. I can't stand it one more second. I'm ready to go down there and ask her what kind of immoral person she is that she would think her behavior is ok. I did send her a Facebook email last December and told her how much this whole thing has upset my H and that he has told her to go away and that we feel sorry for her. He did tell me those things..BTW, so I wasn't making it up. I told her that we love each other and she needed to move on and find a man of her own and leave us alone to try to repair the devastation she has caused. Well..she went crying to my H and he got pissed at me.

What kinds of things have worked..what do you guys recommend..it's just got to end. Now.