Maybe not, it is really not dating. I am not kissing them, nothing but hugs goodbye. They are not staying in the night. They are not the next loves of my life but they are entertaining. I don't mean that in a bad way. But it is better than staring at the TV whcih has nothing on it. I am just killing time. It is harmless. Heck, my ex is married. I am not going to purposely hurt these girls. I have been honest with them that I am still hurt over a past relationship. They even ask me about it. Of course, I don't say the same things to them that I say here but my true thoughts are really not for them to know. I tell them that I am never going back which I am not.
