I do play golf, but the outing is for people who work at his workplace only. So that's not an option.
Argh. This is hard. I definitely do not want him to lose his job but I know you are RIGHT. It needs to be painful for him. I'm just worried that he will cave and try to "just be friends" with the OW just so they can avoid the whispers at work - which we all know would not stop at friends because it didn't before.
I am a "fixer" and I just think to myself that if I could come up with a good answer for him it would help keep him away from her. I know I need to detach and let him flounder on his own...
