Mine said she wanted to keep my last name.

Over my dead body.

As far as golf, you owe it to your son and yourself to enjoy the day for what it is- "a 4 hour walk in the park with a friend".

A perfect game is 18. Tiger can't do it either. relax and ask you S lot's of questions. Focus on his life more than yours. The youthful optimism may infect you.