I kind of felt that it was a guilt thing. He seems to want to be redeem by doing good things or to relieve his guilt by doing something that says to himself, "I took care of her and the house..."

I actually have a good job and am able to take care of myself withour support from my H. It was something he says he was so attracted to when our R became serious. It is really ironic that his A with the OW was because she NEEDED HIM. I thought guys ran from that?

Not much has occurred between my H and I over the last couple of days. Trying to detach and focus on me.


Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison