You are also an inspiration. You picked yourself up from a total blindside and you carried on admirably alone.
You took from this site what you needed to get through, and you graciously came back to give back to those who are now walking the same path.
This goes out to all of you that either came back or never left who so graciously give of your time, patience and empathy to see those of us who came after. For many of us this is probably the worst time in our lives. With your help, understanding and guidance we will get through this and be better for it. I Thank You all from my heart and thank God I found you.
In the time I have been here, there are certain names I look for in return posts because they will always have wise, uplifting advice. You are one of those people. No one has the perfect answers, but can only point in what has been the sensible direction. You are as good a compass as anything Jack Sparrow ever had ( pardon the movie plug)
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
I am going to admit that when I first read you on another board something about your strength and character stood out to me.
What was even more striking to me was how you were handling your sitch. You're a strong woman, Punkin, and I admire you. I know you've had to be. It's not just anyone who can keep the home fires burning successfully while their S is away for long periods of separation serving the country. Military spouses are often the unsung heroes.
I admire your courage while battling this new threat to your H. I also admire your honesty, integrity and wit.
I look forward to reading your posts because you're not afraid to tell it like it is and sometimes I plain lol.
This goes out to all of you that either came back or never left who so graciously give of your time, patience and empathy to see those of us who came after. For many of us this is probably the worst time in our lives. With your help, understanding and guidance we will get through this and be better for it. I Thank You all from my heart and thank God I found you.
Me too!
I also agree with punkin! I am always happy to have your replies on my thread!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
SA, You've been a rock to all of us on these threads, and you can read how much we value your advice. But you haven't really said anything about YOU lately. How are YOU feeling and doing. Other than our love and appreciation, is there something we can help you with right now?
You are so sweet, thank you for your kind words and for asking.
I'm doing fine. It's summer and I'm just cruisin along. Getting ready for my daughter's grad party on Sat. Lots of cleaning and cooking to do.
I wouldn't be honest if I said I wasn't looking forward to having H come and eat my cooking again. OW hates to cook, so my turn to shine a little. Hey, I'm human. (ow is not invited, so I guess I'll be out of the running as the hostess with the mostest.)
Other than that, I'm taking care of the garden, horses, kids, house, and managing to get some me time in there, too.
(ow is not invited, so I guess I'll be out of the running as the hostess with the mostest.)