Just wanted to drop by to say hi and thank you for all of your posts on my thread. I'm doing the best I can to follow everyone's advice, but it can really be tough at times. My W filed about a month ago, which was when I really first started DBing. At least that is when I found the website and started trying to detach. I have been doing 180's since January 3rd, but it hasn't made any difference. She was already gone by then.
You wouldn't take your W back at this point if she wanted to work on things? I haven't gotten to that point yet.
Anyway, it is good to see you hanging in there and you are right, once your D is final and you start to network, I think you will have a LOT of fun. On of my D'd friends recommends that E-H website for meeting people. I may have to try that eventually. He says it helps keep out the rifraff.
My Hearing for a Temporary Order is coming-up on Tuesday. Tells us how everything will be handled between now and when the D is final. I wish my W didn't want anything, but we are likely going to end-up fighting over the placement of the kids. Child support and Alimony payments are starting to look daunting. Not looking forward to this at all. All of our standards of living will be going down soon, and I fear dramatically. I still can't believe this is what she really wants and I think she will eventually regret it, but who knows.......
Hang in there buddy, better times appear to be just around the corner for you.
