I heard back from the one officer, and the CO definitely got the email, and now I have his full email and contact info. I can correspond with him and give him anything he wants.

Believe me, I have enough to make your head spin. I actually told him that directly in an email, but didn't hear back. So I guess Monday I should hear something.

You know, getting the papers today didn't really bother me. When she got home from work, I didn't say a word. I just ignored her. I kind of have no desire to interact with her right now at all.

There have been more than a few women that have expressed interest in me and been flirty. It felt really good to feel desirable. As much as I wish I could save my marriage, I am realizing that she's just done so much to me that it would take so long to rebuild.

I guess you have to love the addict very toughly.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed