SR, after the week of July 19-July 23 it goes back to the normal schedule of every other weekend and every Wednesday. In the summer I don't see them every day like I do in the school year. Plus, D11 has a week long camp and another week they'll spend with their grandmother down at STBXW's family campground.

That's the week STBXW is going to South Dakota with her friend and the possible OM and his motorcycle buddies.

I'm either going down that week to the campground to spend the night with the girls -- I haven't been there in two summers -- or I'm picking them up and bringing them back for the night. She can't take a night from me.

That may be a tough week emotionally.

Today is going well. We spent four hours swimming and playing with their friends. We're going to get some more in after stopping at home now for a snack.

Letter from my L. He is proposing STBXW pay me $11,000 in cash or $15,300 from a QDRO -- which equals $11,000 after taxes.

She'll still making out like a bandit, but I need to get this done before she's bankrupt.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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