Hey Kat, did your ex H stay with his affair partner? I do a lot of lurking over in infedelity, and didn't realize that the chances of them staying with the OP is pretty slim (my dad and stepmother started out as an affair--and it seems there is a less than 1% of this working out!).
So, everyone tells me I need to call the C and explain what happened after I got the advice--and pretty much things have been ? positive? around here? Went to the beach on Tues with S and Marina--those two nearly drowned by that is another story!
And then yesterday we got the wall and baseboards finished. I am trying to initiate "communication" still and this a.m. went to him and told him the cable people will be out Tues and the handyman will be here to drill holes in walls or whatever. This began a lont tirade of how they can't do that, it's impossible, etc. I'm like, don't put me in the middle! Talk to the guy yourself--if he tells me it can be done, it can! And if you can't do it, go to work on Tues and it will be finished when you get home!
So then he reminds me of a door idea for the office. I had completely forgotten about putting a door on a track--like a barn door thing--since, heck, it was about 8-10 months ago we even spoke about this stuff. Then he told me I can have the guy put in some molding around the office door and the dining room door if I wanted.
Ok, who is this person that on Monday is leaving me and on Friday is telling me to put up molding??
I must be on to something--I did go in his room the other morning and told him to roll over--he's like ? why? and I said because you USED to like me to scratch your back. It's been so long, I'm not sure it was even him that said that (I was joking, but...lol).
Oh, also this a.m. he comes in the computer room at around 7:30 and asks if he can get on the computer. I said, hey, I just got here, and no "good morning?" No. I'll let you know when you can get on.lol.
If you can't give me common decency, then, um, no.
