No OW?

Try being Friends as long as you can.

I will also say Gatsby...most of us aren't here because all the problems are with the spouse.

I really suggest you look hard at yourself and maybe find some areas to improve in your realtionship skills.

It is hard...but worth it in the long run...the stuff you do not like in yourself? Kill it.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet