Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

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I am probably over thinking again...

Now my W said yesterday that nothing happened. Meaning In her mind she doesnt think she had an affair, as sex wasnt involved. I told her the commitment to meet the person in itself is an affair. Pretty much it didnt click with her. I am worried that I may not be able to set the transparancy up or the boundary with her. If I bring it up, I am afrain she will get defensive and clam up.

It was an EA, a meeting meant to be a hook-up, a date, something she hid from her husband, something she sneaked out to do - it was an affair. WHATEVER she wants to call it, IT crossed your boundary...and that is the point.
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