I am probably over thinking again...

Now my W said yesterday that nothing happened. Meaning In her mind she doesnt think she had an affair, as sex wasnt involved. I told her the commitment to meet the person in itself is an affair. Pretty much it didnt click with her. I am worried that I may not be able to set the transparancy up or the boundary with her. If I bring it up, I am afrain she will get defensive and clam up.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10