I am confused, pissed, etc, because he made such a big f*cking deal about bringing the first check over so it wouldn't be late. Then, over the past year and a half, the checks were arriving incrementally later and later until it has gone beyond the pale.
Do you know how hard it is to be reinstated by COBRA once you miss a payment? It is impossible! It can't be done. And those payments are due ON THE 1st OF THE MONTH!!!