About the 2x4s thing, no big deal, but I feel that some people on here just love to slam people down and. . . I'm just not into that. Yes, I expect 2x4s. It's entertaining for all.
Anyways, trapt, yes I know there could be OW. Or OM, I don't even know! Feb-May I just assumed it. Then I wasn't sure, and now I don't think there's one person. There could be several, just being "single" that type of thing.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Now the funny part is you aren't exactly truthful with him...because you want MORE than a friendship.
Hey JTB! I think you're on facebook.
I told him I wanted to make "us" work about four days ago. Work as a couple, that is. So I let him know. He just seems to want to be just friends.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
It SEEMS like you see your 'friendship' as a stick you can use to get him to do what you want him to do.
Hmm, yes. I see it as a strategy! You don't think that denying friendship could help him decide to R?
If he and I won't be 'together' then I don't want to be friends. Civil, of course. But now hanging out, cooking and eating together, watching The Office, laughing, etc, no.
I WAS hoping that restricting that could make him think that he does want to R.
But maybe engaging actively in friendship will make him want to R!
I guess bottom line is no one really knows for sure. But continue to give me advice/ideas if you think of any.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
