It sounds like your BIL has stuff in common with dan:
phone porn, internet porn, strippers, dirty pics on the camera....
I know. It hits a little too close to home for me. Plus the newspapers are covering a big story for our area...
Back in late April a local funeral home director for our town and a neighboring, smaller town of about 2500 people killed himself. He is the director who managed Dan's grandparents' funerals, among others. We only have two funeral homes in town so they get a lot of business.
Anyway it turned out he killed himself because he had been served with a search warrant to seize his computers and take a DNA sample. A 17 yr old boy had filed charges claiming the 60 yr old man had been showing him porn on the funeral home computer (the boy worked there), and had been having a sexual relationship with him for 7 months. None of this came out until the man had killed himself. Another man was just charged last Friday as an accomplice who had sexual interactions with the boy once or twice.
I feel so bad for the wife left behind. Granted I don't know how much she knew ahead of time but even still how awful. My sister who is still married says that her husband turns to porn to satisfy himself because, as he told my sister, it is "faster and easier" than actually having sex with her--they hardly ever have sex anymore and she is sex-starved...
So if you wonder why I have a negative attitude toward porn, maybe I sound like people who don't like alcohol because relatives have a problem with it. I am sure there is a recreational use for porn but I have seen too many people get roped into it and have very negative outcomes.
